This one is large enough to catch the eye in any situation, but it is muted enough to say something dignified and reserved. "I got your attention; now take me seriously." It is a beautiful and versatile piece.
I bought this necklace... took a chance on the gold - it just seemed to work better with the gold than silver - and absolutely love it. I'm anxiously waiting for the matching earrings to come back on order and will definitely get those for the set.